tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28157041640154916172024-03-12T19:12:12.445-07:00A Prairie CatholicA diary of one woman's journey home.Carolynhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04121927281998746424noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2815704164015491617.post-56949475034511186232012-01-22T21:40:00.000-08:002012-01-22T21:40:41.515-08:00Roads<span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">I know. </span><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;"><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">I've been a bad girl. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">I haven't posted in, literally, forever. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">Is this something I need to go to confession about? </span><br />
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</tbody></table><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">Mine's been interesting. Different. Divergent. I feel like I'm on the cusp of something wonderful, and large, and momentous.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">Okay, I often feel like that. And maybe someday it will come true.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">I guess I'm thinking about a road because of a couple of conversations I've had recently. About where we're going, not only as individuals, but as a people. As a society.</span><br />
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</tbody></table><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">We build our futures one block at a time. Really, where we build them is totally up to us. Or is it? How much are we the products of our own choices, and how much are we the products of our socialization? Who would we be, really, if we could be anyone without that tearing down and building up that is our sociological upbringing? Without the blatant commercialization of </span><em><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">everything</span></em><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;"> in our day to day lives?</span><br />
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</tbody></table><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">Our lives are something that requires a great deal of navigation. Some of us, I suppose, navigate like we drive a car... by the seat of our pants, never stopping for directions, relying on instinct, intuition and just blind luck to arrive at our destination. Or just going for a leisurely cruise, seeing where we end up. </span><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;"><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">Others need a map. A detailed map. Like a </span><a href="http://www.caamanitoba.com/travel/roadtrip_tourbooks.jsp"><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">CAA Triptik</span></a><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">, with all the rest stops preplanned, all the sight-seeing meticulously marked, and a detailed milage log kep. There is a specific destination in mind that must be arrived at by a specific date. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">Which one am I? I don't know, a little of both. I don't really know where my destination is anymore, and I'm mostly okay with that. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">I have more thoughts about this, but really need my destination to be bed right now. We'll chat more later. </span>Carolynhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04121927281998746424noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2815704164015491617.post-77110226074603012312010-08-27T22:42:00.000-07:002010-08-27T22:46:13.390-07:00The One Where I Rant<i><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">::growling in frustration after reading socialcomments on cbc.ca, again::</span></i><br />
<span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">Okay, people, I'm only going to </span><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">say</span></span><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;"> </span><span style="font-size: x-large;"><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">this ONCE</span></span><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">: </span><br />
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<b><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">Science:</span></b><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;"> explains </span><i><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">how </span></i><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">things happened.</span><br />
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<b><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">Bible:</span></b><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;"> explains </span><i><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">why</span></i><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;"> things happened.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">One does not, I repeat, does </span><i><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">not</span></i><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;"> necessarily negate the other. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">The Earth is older than 6000 years old, as scientific evidence has been fairly conclusive in this area. Creating the Earth with dinosaur bones already there for us to dig up is, at best, deceptive on God's part. That is not part of His nature. Not of my God, anyway. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">The concept of the Big Bang does not pose significant ideological difficulties with the Judeo-Christian concept of the origin of the Universe. Both create something out of nothing. I genuinely don't understand why this is an issue. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">The idea that humanity arose out of a lineage of ape-like creatures that subsequently migrated around the globe doesn't mean that there wasn't a point in history where a single, unique individual (or pair of individuals) emerged that acted as a tipping point in the development of the species. Because there probably was. And the whole ape-thing explains so much about so many people!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">The details of Genesis are a creation myth. Yes, a myth. Quit getting your knickers in a knot. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">The definition of the myth is: </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">a traditional or legendary story, usually concerning some being or hero or event, with or without a determinable basis of fact or a natural explanation, esp. one that is concerned with deities or demigods and explains some practice, rite, or phenomenon of nature. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">Face it. It's a myth. God probably didn't make the world in six days. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">The PURPOSE of creation myth is <em>less</em> about explaining how the world came into existence, and more about <strong>explaining the relationship between humanity and God</strong>. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">The fact that this relationship happens to be explained in the setting of the dawn of time (a story that long existed in the Jewish oral tradition before ever being committed to paper, recorded by an individual who I would assume have very little knowledge about modern physics, archeology or anthropological cultural development) is a detail that far too many people get mired down in. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">You have to look at the big picture. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">God made the Universe. God made the Earth. God created humanity in His image. God smacked his forehead in frustration as we messed it all up. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">The mechanisms by which God accomplished those tasks are explained, in part, by science. He created the natural order that science has uncovered and explained eloquently in it's own language. The same God-created order that you deny by your assertations of, "well, the Bible told me so". </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">Okay, I'm done. Carry on. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;"><i>::end of rant:: </i></span>Carolynhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04121927281998746424noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2815704164015491617.post-65075366640621008202010-07-27T22:20:00.000-07:002010-07-27T22:32:34.218-07:00The Variance of Circumstance<span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">Yep, I'm still talking about our trip. You can read more about it </span><a href="http://allourneedsarespecial.blogspot.com/2010/07/queen-city.html"><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">here</span></a><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">Okay, so I'm talking less about the trip </span><i><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">per se</span></i><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">, and more about where we stayed. We stayed in a campground. It was interesting. I highly recommend it to anyone who's doing some traveling: not only is it relatively inexpensive compared to a hotel, it's also more infinitely more interesting. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">You see, in a hotel, you are in your little room. Alone. You don't necessarily encounter other people who are staying there as well. A campground is different. We were there for five nights. Some people were just passing through and stayed one night. Others have been there much, much longer. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">We discovered after the first day or so that a significant portion of the people at the campground were actually </span><i><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">living</span></i><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;"> there. Because you move about the campground going about your routine such as laundry, washing dishes, using the bathrooms and showers, etc, you see a lot of them.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">Most people who are living there are temporary workers from other parts of the country; for example, one woman I talked to was from Edmonton. She followed her husband there. She told me every time she saw my kids she felt homesick, missing her grandbabies who were about the same age. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">We had Steven King staying in a decrepit camper across the road from us. I swear, it was Steven King. Okay, not Steven King as much as it was Stuart Redman, a character from his 1970's novel, </span><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Stand"><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">The Stand</span></a><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">. Minus the dog. And none of that </span><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Captain_Trips"><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">Captain Trips</span></a><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;"> stuff. (If you understood all those references, does that mean you're a geek too? The first Steven King novel I ever read was "The Stand". I bought it at Value Village for $2 when I was with my friend Kelly. The book smelled like cigarette smoke. I was twelve years old.)</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">Okay, okay, the point... </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">I found myself humming one of my favourite </span><a href="http://www.carolynarends.com/"><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">Carolyn Arends</span></a><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;"> songs, </span><a href="http://www.music-lyrics-gospel.com/gospel_music_lyrics/travelers_the_airport_song_7823.asp"><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">Travelers</span></a><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;"> </span><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7TSNumaWvg4"><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">(The Airport Song)</span></a><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">. The song is about... well, traveling. And waiting in airports. Which doesn't necessarily have anything to do with a campground in Regina. But there's a line: </span><br />
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<i><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">"There is variance in circumstance </span><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;"><br />
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</span><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;"> But the truth is we're all travelers</span><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;"><br />
</span><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;"> Who have not reached our final destination"</span></i><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">that sticks with me. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">In that campground, there was that variance. Some were there for happy reasons, like us. Some where there strictly for work, like the Edmonton lady. Others, like the family next door, appeared to be living there for other, less joyous reasons. The husband came and went each day in his work uniform, and probably wasn't a migrating worker like the Edmonton people. The wife often cried in the bathroom at night. The two kids were rarely seen, and smiled even more rarely. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">In our life, and in our faith, we all have that variance in circumstance, direction and occasion. Again in Ms. Arends' words: "</span><i><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">There are signs to welcome daddies, There are flowers and balloons, Business trips and funerals, And happy honeymoons."</span></i><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">I suppose that lesson has never been more vivid in my life. How we can all collectively be in the same physical space, and yet none of us are in the same </span><i><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">place</span></i><span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">Our faith, which for all intents and purposes is a never-ending journey, tends to make us occupy the same physical space while rarely being in the same place. It happens every Sunday. Each of us there are at different points in our journey home.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">And some are stuck at the airport. Others are in mid-flight, but have terrible turbulence. A few are flying smoothly over a clear, jet-blue ocean. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana", sans-serif;">It makes me question where I am on my own journey. And who's flying the plane. </span><br />
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<b>laundry list</b><br />
noun<br />
<i>1. An item-by-item enumeration.</i><br />
<i>2. </i><i>A lengthy, inclusive list of data, matters for consideration, etc., often one regarded as unorganized or showing a lack of necessary selectiveness</i><br />
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God and I are on speaking terms again. We've been ignoring each other as of late, but caught up a little today. As I said my prayers for the people I regularly pray for, I came to realize that I never seem to reach the end on my list.<br />
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I thought of our priest who keeps our family in his prayers, and wondered how many hundreds of people he prays for on a daily basis. I remembered what I read about religious sisters who spend many hours a day in prayer, mostly for the benefit of others. I reflected on how my own list continues to grow in length, and occasionally some people "fall off" but more often than not they remain on.<br />
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Prayer, I suddenly realized, is like laundry. Just when you think you're almost at the end, there's another pile needing doing.Carolynhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04121927281998746424noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2815704164015491617.post-91200796706555879802010-05-28T23:11:00.000-07:002010-05-28T23:11:30.658-07:00When Lightening StrikesI'm writing this late at night when I really should be in bed, but I'll give it a shot.<br />
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I often get my news via CBC, either on the<a href="http://www.cbc.ca/listen/index.html"> radio</a> or <a href="http://www.cbc.ca/news/">online</a>. After an annoying week in weather (you know, where our prairie spring somehow got replaced by hurricane season), I woke this morning to read that a beautiful, old church in the Capital City's core was hit by lightening, and one of the spires collapsed overnight.<br />
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Generally, I like to read the comments left online by various readers (and have been known to make a comment or two of my own), but it was with wry amusement that several commentators noted: "God must have been aiming for a Catholic Church, but missed."<br />
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After the fifth or sixth time I read that same comment from a different poster, I grunted. Enough, I thought, I get it. Don't make me admit that I <em>agree</em> with you!<br />
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Maybe us, as a Catholic collective, <em>do</em> deserve to be smoted by God for the things that have happened in recent decades. Things that have only really come to light in recent years. You know "the things" I'm talking about: Abuse scandals. Cover-ups. Lies. As an ever-faithful Catholic, I find it very difficult to reconcile what I believe the Church <em>is</em> and <em>should be</em> with what appears to have actually happened. That we allowed to happen.<br />
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Most priests out there are good ones. A few are not. And it really is truly only a few among the tens or hundred thousand or so priests in the world today. I hate hate hate hate hate that those few have cast so much doubt and judgment on the rest. I hate that I find myself questioning whether or not I can trust a priest. A bishop. The hierarchy. <br />
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I disagree with how this whole thing has been handled. I just want the Church to admit that it was wrong, it screwed up, pay the price so that everyone can move on. Instead we get this pussy-foot dancing happening. I believe in the Sacrament of Reconciliation, but there are times where one must accept a temporal punishment for their sins are part of the penance.<br />
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To do anything less would be.... unchristian.Carolynhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04121927281998746424noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2815704164015491617.post-84029446835029842952010-04-04T14:27:00.000-07:002010-06-04T19:15:18.667-07:00He Is Risen!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.mark-shea.com/images/resurrection.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://www.mark-shea.com/images/resurrection.jpg" /></a></div>Carolynhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04121927281998746424noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2815704164015491617.post-85624854409645979232010-04-02T18:03:00.000-07:002010-06-04T19:15:53.244-07:00Good Friday<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://rdtwot.files.wordpress.com/2008/03/good-friday-icon-1.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://rdtwot.files.wordpress.com/2008/03/good-friday-icon-1.jpg" /></a></div>Carolynhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04121927281998746424noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2815704164015491617.post-14998654472505770992010-03-30T13:04:00.000-07:002010-06-04T19:12:13.035-07:00Puppet Gods<div style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="font-family: "Georgia", "Times New Roman", serif;"><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia", "Times New Roman", serif;">We did the "divide and conquer" thing again on Sunday: we got up late, I really wanted to go to 9 a.m. Mass, and there was no way we'd all be ready in time. Besides, the kids were cranky and I didn't want to sit through the extra-long Palm Sunday Mass with them. So I went to 9 a.m., and Michael walks out the door as I walk in to make the 10:30 (generally calling questions and instructions to each other while one walks down the driveway).</span></div><div style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="font-family: "Georgia", "Times New Roman", serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="font-family: "Georgia", "Times New Roman", serif;"> As we head into Holy Week, and coming up to the Triduum (my very favourite time of year), often the homilies are about the Death of Christ and the Redemption of Sin, for obvious reasons. Sunday's homily was no exception. </span></div><div style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="font-family: "Georgia", "Times New Roman", serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="font-family: "Georgia", "Times New Roman", serif;">Father talked about the Triumphant Entry into Jerusalem, but how they turned on Him demanding His crucifixion only a few days later. What changed? I've heard this explanation before, that they were expecting their Messiah to deliver them from their enemies, the Romans. When it became clear that it was not the case, well... I'm sure you know how this story ends. </span></div><div style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="font-family: "Georgia", "Times New Roman", serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="font-family: "Georgia", "Times New Roman", serif;">But something Father said has stuck with me, and I admit has troubled me. He said that people often treat God like their own personal puppet God (his words, not mine), expecting them to deliver them from their problems. In fact, Christ came to deliver us from our sin.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia", "Times New Roman", serif;">At first, I nodded my head. It made sense. I mean, I understood it with my brain. We can't rely on God to fix our own personal problems: He has equipped us to do that more or less ourselves. I have know people over the course of my life that have sat back and expected God to fix their lives, and then blamed Him when nothing happened.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia", "Times New Roman", serif;">And I mean, there is nothing saying we can't pray for </span><i><span style="font-family: "Georgia", "Times New Roman", serif;">wisdom </span></i><span style="font-family: "Georgia", "Times New Roman", serif;">as to how to solve our problems, on making the right choices, or praying that we receive a little </span><strike><span style="font-family: "Georgia", "Times New Roman", serif;">divine testicular fortitude</span></strike><span style="font-family: "Georgia", "Times New Roman", serif;"> courage to do the right thing.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia", "Times New Roman", serif;">Absolutely. I wholly agree with this homily. God doesn't fix our problems, He fixed our sin. Case closed.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia", "Times New Roman", serif;">But then my heart whispered: </span><i><span style="font-family: "Georgia", "Times New Roman", serif;">What about your children? </span></i><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia", "Times New Roman", serif;">And so I said to my heart: </span><i><span style="font-family: "Georgia", "Times New Roman", serif;">What was that? Speak up, please. </span></i><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia", "Times New Roman", serif;">And then my heart reminded me of all the times I spent on my knees, praying for Abby to be healed. Knowing that it probably wouldn't happen, but also believing that miracles can and do happen. I remembered my anguished cry when I started bleeding in my first trimester with Rachael: "</span><i><span style="font-family: "Georgia", "Times New Roman", serif;">Please God, let me at least meet my child</span></i><span style="font-family: "Georgia", "Times New Roman", serif;">." How many breathless prayers have I whispered for my children, my spouse, my parents, my friends and my community?</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia", "Times New Roman", serif;">Sometimes God does fix our problems. We usually call them miracles. Pretty sure that's the definition of a miracle. Or at least, we'll call it Divine Intervention and consider the matter settled. Either way, I don't expect Him to just... poof... fix something, especially if it's a mess I have skillfully created myself. But I don't think that </span><i><span style="font-family: "Georgia", "Times New Roman", serif;">asking </span></i><span style="font-family: "Georgia", "Times New Roman", serif;">Him to fix my "problem" is in itself... well, a problem.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia", "Times New Roman", serif;">Is it?</span> </div><div style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><br />
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It really was a lot of fun. Something we will have to do as a family every year!!Carolynhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04121927281998746424noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2815704164015491617.post-19162308570918029772009-10-25T13:36:00.000-07:002010-06-04T19:14:10.846-07:00The Strength of Our FeetI woke up this morning feeling absolutely horrid.<br />
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That, in itself is nothing new. Since Abby started nursery school last month, we've become the House of the Damned, going from one illness to the next. I understand the whole "you need to stay home when you're sick so you don't spread it to everyone else" courtesy, but we're to the point that if we did that, we are never, ever leaving this house until Spring. A quick check confirmed no one has fevers (because that <span style="font-style: italic;">does</span> merit staying out of public), and off to Mass we go.<br />
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Naturally, we were late for Mass, so we sat at the very, very, very back of the church. The building is over 100 years old, so while the acoustics are not terrible thanks to modern wonder of amplification, they're not great. I'm struggling to hear the priest over the noise of my less-than-happy-to-be-there-this-morning children. Plus, I'm still figuring out his very-thick African accent.*<br />
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The priest raises his hands in prayer, and prays for the strength of our feet. I'm sure I had a weird look on my face until I realized he was praying for the strength of our<span style="font-style: italic;"> faith</span>, and not our feet.<br />
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I giggled inwardly to myself at my silly mistake, but stopped suddenly at a revelation. Sometimes it <span style="font-style: italic;">is</span> about the strength of our feet. Not necessarily our physical feet, but about our ability to keep going, keep taking the next step, and to keep putting on foot in front of another, so to speak.<br />
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My husband and I have had moments in our life together when the only thing we have is the strength of our feet. During the December when Abby was diagnosed with Infantile Spasms. During the long, dark days of January when Abby was in the depths of the ACTH. When she relapsed and ended up in the hospital again. When we got her diagnosis of Autism. Even the days early in my pregnancy with Rachael when I started bleeding, and I thought that I was going to lose her.<br />
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Even my friends, there are a few in mind that have had a less-than-stellar year. Yet they keep putting one foot in front of another, and keep going. The strength of their feet is the only thing that keeps them going from one moment to the next.<br />
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It's our ability to keep going, to keep putting one foot in front of another, that sees us though. It's something we need to do no matter what path God has set us on.<br />
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I think I will pray for both the strength of my faith <span style="font-style: italic;">and</span> the strength of my feet.<br />
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<span style="font-size: 78%;">* Growing up, I had a teacher who was from Africa. I loved listening to him speak, the gentle lilt of his voice, and the way certain words rolled off his tongue. The catch was, of course, that we were all speaking French. As a result, I have never met a French-speaking African native that I can't understand. However, according to my brain, English is a whole other ballgame. I seem to have to re-learn the intricacies of their unique pronunciations with each new person I meet. </span>Carolynhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04121927281998746424noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2815704164015491617.post-68260282769697212622009-08-26T08:49:00.000-07:002010-06-04T19:14:28.347-07:00PromisesI spent many years in Diaspora before coming home to the Church. In those years adrift, a single phrase from Mass remained in my head (and in my heart), and ultimately led me home.<br />
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"Lord, I am not worthy to receive you, but only say the word and I shall be healed."<br />
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It was that promise of healing that drew me back. Even alone in the wilderness, I knew that He had that power.<br />
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For a long time, I focused on the not worthy part. I understood that I was imperfect, and as such not able to fully be with Him. I wept in sorrow and repentence. But recently, it's the promise of healing that draws me. It's that promise that fills me with hope, not only for myself, but for my small, hurting family.<br />
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God may not heal my child, but He can help heal my heart.<br />
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Glory be to God.Carolynhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04121927281998746424noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2815704164015491617.post-82930316081829751022009-03-24T22:47:00.000-07:002010-06-04T19:15:07.403-07:00Oh! The Places You'll Go!God has been taking me on an interesting journey.<br />
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The centralness of my Catholic faith fills up and the wanes from the centre of my life periodically... we're in the "filling up" phase right now. It's Lent, and I've been thinking an awful lot about sin. I'm not sure if it's in a good way or a bad way. Is there a good way to think about sin?<br />
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Without divulging my secrets here, I'm gaining insight into why we have Reconciliation. To those who don't know, it's the "new" name for Confession. But Confession wasn't sufficient as far as names and labels go; there's more to it than just reciting a litany of the darkness of your soul. Reconciliation can be life-altering. I know of at least one instance in my own life where it has been. And I think that I'm approaching that point again, when that need to <span style="font-style: italic;">reconcile</span> what I was with what I'm meant to be is coming to a head.<br />
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I realize today that God provides a path for us to follow. I have prayed for days, weeks, to reconnect with my daughter, from whom I feel increasingly distant as she spends the bulk of her day with her <a href="http://www.stamant.mb.ca/main/ABAProgram.html">tutors</a>. By the end of her "work" day, I'm busy with supper and dishes, and then bed. I don't get "quality" time with her. What does God do? He sends snow!! Unexpectedly, our afternoon tutor cancels due to weather today, and I'm left thinking, "What do I do with this child of mine this afternoon?" Amazingly, her baby sister napped, and we got time together. She helped me unload the dishwasher. We made cookies. We sat around and ate cookies. We looked at books. We roughhoused and played. It was a wonderful experience that suddenly helped me connect with my child again (and allowed me to see how much she's grown up the past weeks and months!!!) I feel like I can resume being her mother.<br />
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I have other paths to follow. I get the sense that God has laid a road for me to follow in the coming months, and I want to be obedient and travel it. I'm hoping it will lead me to where I think it's going, but I'm okay if it takes me somewhere else too. I finally feel like my life has direction again after years of being adrift. There's a role for me and my family in this larger community, and my greatest desire is to fill it.<br />
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However, instead of going it alone like Dr. Seuss <a href="http://schools.fsusd.k12.ca.us/schools/fhs/teacher/link/GigioC/Dreamweaver%202/Oh%20The%20Places%20you%27ll%20Go.htm">predicted</a>, I'm going by the grace of God and the help of my friends and family.<br />
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It's gonna be an awesome ride.Carolynhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04121927281998746424noreply@blogger.com0